Some people just simple want to forgive that person who cheats on them. Often times they will look past those affairs and continue to stay with a person. Is it sometimes a fight they have thinking they love the person? Perhaps it is something they do simply for kids that they had with the other person?
In most cases when a married couple faces a problem like an affair they will divorce. But there are a few times that they will stay together. At this point you have to wonder, what the hell are they thinking?
Why stay with someone who has cheated on you before, and may do so again? Isn’t it more like putting yourself in a continually position to wonder about the other person when they are late? But many times you will hear you simple words come from the person, but I love him or her.
Though you may never find a person who is strong enough to look past those transgressions that their spouse made, they are out there. Few and far between will be a marriage that will get past the affair of one or both partners.
Take Tiger Woods and his wife, he cheated, and the rumors are swirling that she will be filing for divorce. Of course she may be set to make a ton of money on the divorce, but she also knows that she just can’t do it.
Sticking it out with him may mean continued limelight position. But it may also mean many more heartaches for a person who may have really been in love. Instead she is going to break her loses and end the time they have been together.
It’s a shame that people feel they need to cheat after they get married. It would be a much simpler world if everyone would get married and not search for something on the side. However, cheating itself can come from many reasons.
Surely with Tiger it was the attraction the women felt towards someone so popular. But he is still to blame in the whole process too. Because he could have showed just how much he really loved his wife by turning his back on offers made to him.
If you are a woman or man who feels they could stick with a spouse after they have cheated, good luck. You may feel that for a bit, it’s a fight of survival, one that I had felt when I was married to a man who cheated. But looking back, I know that I would never have trusted him again.
Anytime he would have been late, I would have wondered if he was seeing “her”. Sure it was something that I really tried to wrap my mind around. But in the long run it was the mistress that won out, and I was left in the cold.
Though I must say it was for the better, I have a much better guy now. Many of you who try and stick it out, well if you feel it’s because you can’t find a better person, you can. Never discount how good you are and that people will love you.
