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We Are All Different in Ways that Matter, but We Are All Alike in the Ways that Matter Most

by itchy fish

All the people of the Earth are human. That’s obvious. But not to everyone. So, I’ll try to convince you.

I’ll start with a poem that won a prize in the NYC Elementary Schools a few years back:

The races of the world
Are like the colors of a rainbow.
Would a rainbow of one color
Be beautiful?

and a quote from a friend’s child, aged 4; he told someone

My mom is Jewish and my dad is Catholic. God listens to me with both ears

United, there are a lot of us. We can feed each other, or we can eat each other.

We people. We, the descendants and relatives of people who were slaves, or in pogroms, or in ‘camps’, or on reservations or trails of tears.

We people who were told to shut up, sit down, get to the back of the bus, obey.

We people who were given the garbage to eat, and made soul food of enormous variety and flavor.

We people. We people who may make others feel icky, because we don’t act like them, believe like them, dress like them or think like them.

We people who are a little bit special.

We people. We people who worship different gods, or no god.

We people. We people who have sex with people who look like us (guys with guys!). Or with people who do NOT look like us (Blacks with Whites!). Or not at all.

We people. We people who don’t fit into “male” or “female” exactly.

We people. We nerds and geeks and goths and weirdos and freaks.

We people.

We THE people, of the UNITED states of America.

We people, UNITED.

There are a LOT of us.

We minorities are a majority.

But some of us don’t see it that way. Some of us get mad when others complain. “Wait!” we say “it’s not your turn!”

It’s EVERYONE’S turn, dammit.

or “Wait! We” (my little group) “had it worse than you” (your little group) “so we should get helped first.” Or we’ve had it worse for longer; or we’ve had fewer people making it better. That’s a we that excludes you. My we includes you.

Well, why don’t we stop worrying about who has it WORSE, and start making it BETTER?

or “Wait! You’re disabled! That’s not like us! We’re not disabled!”

The ability that counts is the ability to see that we are all PEOPLE.

We can feed each other. We can sing together. Or we can eat each other, we can drown each other out.

We need a lot of voices – we need calls to action and rage, and we need analysis. We need information about many topics. But it all feeds the same dream – the American dream. The human dream.

When any group of people write about the various ways they are oppressed, both historically and currently, we could demean them for whining … or we could say “Yes, that’s right. Us too. How can we help?”

“But wait!” you say. “Resources are limited”

In one sense, of course, you’re right. Each of us has limited time, limited money, limited knowledge. Even as a country and a planet, we have limited resources. But in another sense, you are wrong. Because when we feed each other, we all grow. And we as a community, and we as a world, will come up with new solutions, new ideas, new ways of doing and of being. We can, we must and we will.

If we hear each other, and feed each other.

The alternative is dreadful; the possibilities are glorious.

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