The romance of Twilight is very captivating. The love between Bella and Edward has become a romantic ideal. While the vast majority of us are unlikely to fall in love with a vampire, the romance of Twilight is obtainable by all of us.
Follow these three steps to find your own grand romance and your own Edward.
1. Pick Wisely
Edward is not the most popular guy in school. He is also not the weirdo in a trench coat. When selecting the guy you want for your Edward, something in the middle is best.
If your guy is too popular, it will be difficult to experience the sensation of being the only one he likes. Part of what Bella liked about Edward was that the way he felt about her was unique and different from how he had ever felt about anyone else.
You also don’t want anyone who is genuinely weird. It is okay if he appears weird to others at first and you are the only one who sees the real him. But if the real him is really weird, he is not your Edward.
Follow your instincts. Bella was attracted to Edward immediately. She found him fascinating from the first time she saw him. Don’t pick someone you are not instantly interested in if you truly want an Edward.
2. Take Risks
Once you have selected your potential Edward, take risks together. Avoid doing anything seriously dangerous, but participate is some adventurous activities.
Try cliff-jumping. Eat some exotic foods. Do something you have never done, but always wanted to do. The more exciting things you do together, the more experiences and memories you share and the closer you become.
During risk taking activities, make sure that your potential Edward exhibits reasonable protectiveness. Edward will do anything to keep Bella safe.
3. Stay Together
Part of what makes Edward and Bella’s relationship so great is being forever young together. Romance doesn’t get much better than that.
If vampires truly exist, I am ignorant of it. Luckily, there is another way of achieving the romance of youth.
There is an interesting phenomenon that occurs with couples who have been together since they were young. They no longer see each other the way they actually appear, but as they used to be when they first met.
While you will still physically age, your Edward will always be there, seeing you how you looked at seventeen. Once you find your Edward, stick with him. Don’t chase werewolves.
You don’t need to be a mythical being to have your own Twilight-like romance. A love like Edward and Bella’s can be had by mere humans, if you know how to find it.
