According to www.tmz.com on an article named Tito Ortiz Arrested for Domestic Violence and www.latimes.com with their article Tito Ortiz arrested on suspicion of domestic violence at home he shares with Jenna Jameson, former light-heavyweight champion, Tito Ortiz was arrested today, April 26, 2010 for domestic violence. Around 10 am this morning a phone call was placed to the 911 dispatch reporting a disturbance from Ortiz and his girlfriend, Jenna Jameson, house. Once the officers arrived at their home in Huntington Beach, California they cops said their were “visible signs” of injuries to Ms. Jameson. Ortiz is currently in custody while waiting to be transfered to the Orange County, California jail.
Domestic violence is never a laughing matter. Sometimes it can be women mentally or physically abusing their husbands or boyfriends, however there are always more reported cases of men abusing their wives or girlfriends. Whatever the case may be, domestic abusive can leave a damaging affect on the couples relationship, friendships, families and in reality their whole lives.
If you suffer emotional or even physical violence in a relationship over time the couple can grow through so many difficult problems individually or perhaps together. Some of the problems that stem from domestic violence can be (but are not limited too) depression, eating disorders, drinking, drug use, loss of employment, mental illness and even suicide. Some of these problems can never be treated as long as the domestic violence continues.
Even though many problems can stem from domestic violence there are so many great ways to over come it and know in advance the abuse from a partner can be stopped as well. If you are ever suffering from abuse then you need to know it is OK to talk to some. Make sure you can talk to someone who is trusting and willing to help you such as a very close friend, a preacher or even a social worker. If you work with them, they will work with you. Counseling can help a relationship and individual lives dealing with abuse as long as both people are willing to seek the help.
As you are seeking help for the abuse in your relationship you will have to face rumors and gossip about the violence you are now suffering in your relationship with your partner. Most people thrive off of talking about other peoples problems and do not think that your situation will not be one of those problems they just want to overlook. Everyone loves to know everyone else business. However, you can overcome the gossip and still be on the road to recovery. Even though more then likely your relationship with your partner is pretty much over, you can still seek help individually and move on with your life to pursue great things. Look at Rhianna and Chris Brown. Of course the abusive nature of Chris Brown to Rhianna ended their relationship, Rhianna has grown into a stronger woman from the mental help she seek-ed after the violence surfaced. She is now speaking out to other woman who are in abusive relationships telling them that they can get out and get help. Chris Brown had to come to blows with his domestic violence and his tendencies to express them. He sought counseling and is on the road to recovery and in hopes it never happens again. Another great famous couple to look at is Robin Givens who formerly married to Mike Tyson. For years in their marriage Tyson physically and mentally abused Robin. She did not understand the severity of the matter until after her divorce from him, but after Robin and Mike did split up, she found the help she needed to work past her demons and move on with her life. Now that she has overcame her abuse due to Mike Tyson she has forgiven him and believes if it was not for the situation she was in with him, that she would not be the strong woman she is today. Jenna Jameson can do the exact same with her relationship with Tito Ortiz. She can overcome the abuse and work past all the hurt as long as she seeks the help she needs and realizes the Tito needs help as well. Their relationship will have to be put on the back burner so they both can individually seek help before they repair any part of their relationship and in reality it may never be able to be repaired because of the trust issue will be really hard to work past.
The fact of the matter is domestic violence is never a situation to just toss to the side and expect it to fix itself. It needs to be brought to someones attention before matters get worse and the path of healing needs to be as soon as you possibly can. If you wait to take the healing road you are just giving into the violence which could destroy even more precious years off your life!
