I’m sure you heard, read, and seen all the tips of how to pick up women. Plus the ways and tricks to meet them the proper way, if you can call it that. Well I’m here to let you know of what you CAN’T do, while talking to the ladies. Trust me, I know because I’m alone and single since my whole life.
7)TV- Forget what you see on TV or in the movies. Also don’t act like anybody either. I made the fatal mistake of acting like Fonzie, from Happy Days. I thought by just asking girls out, without a conversation would all it would take. Man I was wrong after about 30 some rejections. Nothing on TV or in the movies are real. Its all an illusion. Nothing is perfect as they make it out to be. I still love Fonzie and all but he is an illusion.
6) Not being yourself- Well as I made the point earlier. I tried to be like Fonzie, and it got me no were. Well accept a ton of laughs from the guys, and a ton of ills from the girls when they hear my name. Look even if you are boring its alright because your being yourself. I think women dig that but I am not sure.
5) Being Simple Minded- Don’t like just one girl, because then you will become blind of the other women around you. Then you’ll get attached. I liked and became attach to this one girl for 8 long years. That was one of the worst mistakes of my life. That’s 8 years of my life, I will never get back.
4) Making another woman jealous- Well although I was attached and simple minded on this one girl. I wanted her to want me. So I thought by going out with any woman that was hot would make her jealous. Bad mistake, and bad motivation as well. All that will do is hurt the lady your going out with. Although I never made it that far. I know that would hurt me, if I found out the girl I was dating was just using me to make some dude jealous.
3) Fear of Failure- Your not going to get anywere in life if you cant take risks. Sometimes its fun to fail, because you can learn from the mistakes. I feared rejection from certain girls that I had liked. Now I regret not even trying
2) Lack of Confidence- If you fear failure then you don’t have any confidence. Confidence is the key because I bet there are a good bit of sexy women out there, that wonder why they were never hit on or asked out. I know the answer because there were at least 4 women that were just way out of my league. This intimidated me along with there awesome looks and personalities. Anyway, who cares if there out of your league. Go up to them and talk to them. Make yourself stand out from the rest of the pact.
1) Shyness- You might as well kill yourself because you won’t get any women, and nowere in life if you cant SPEAK UP! Unless your mute, then thats a whole another story. You don’t have to talk about everything. Just by saying a simple hello can turn into a 5 minute conversation.
Well there you have it, the list of not to do’s of picking up women. I beat myself over the heart with the past and what I did wrong, not to mention the fact I set a world record of failure and rejection. I hope whoever reads this takes my advice seriously. Or else your going to end up like me. Angry, bitter, heartbroken, miserable, regretful, and alone. You don’t want to end up like that? Do you?