Are you pondering the idea of sending a girl flowers? Are you wondering if it’d be appropriate to send a girl flowers? Would you like to send your friend a bouquet for her birthday and are wondering if it’s too early in the relationship?
If you’ve been wondering this, you’re not alone. In fact, some of the top searches on Yahoo are “should I send a girl flowers” and “send a girl flowers at work.”
It can be tricky to know if it is appropriate to send a girl flowers. In many situations, it is perfectly alright and the girl would be thrilled to receive flowers. However, in other situations it might be a little over the top and she might mistake you as being desperate, or possibly as a stalker.
As a general rule, try to listen your heart and what you feel it’s best. If there is a safe third-party person you can talk to about this, such as your sister, or a good friend that’s a girl, then do so. If they know the girl personally, they might be able to give you a better clue if it is right or not.
As a general rule, if you haven’t been on a date with her, then it is probably not a good time to send her flowers. There are exceptions to this, and there are some girls who would be thrilled to get the attention. But, for the most part, you should wait to send a girl flowers until after you’ve been on a date with her. And, of course, if you didn’t get the hint that she liked you on the date, it probably is not a good idea to send her flowers. But, if you will probably never see her again, it might not matter. If you want to send her flowers, then do so.
Some people might say it is okay to send flowers to a girl that you’ve met online. If you have been conversing with a girl you’ve met on the internet for at least three weeks or so, it’s nice to send her flowers. (That is, provided she does seem interested in you through her messages.)
If you have been on at least three dates with the girl, and all of the dates went well, then it is a nice gesture to send her surprise flowers. I recommend sending her a half-dozen bouquet of pink roses. Of course, you can also send her a traditional bouquet as well.
In some situations, it might be okay to send flowers even if you have only been on just one date with her. This might include Valentine’s Day and her birthday.
Of course, you can also present her with flowers on a date for her. This is definitely a great way to say “I have a crush on you.”
Don’t forget, you do have the option of sending flowers as a “Secret Admirer.” However, to be honest, this might freak out some girls. This is something to consider on a case by case situation.
There are some times when you should definitely send a girl flowers. If you’ve been dating her for awhile, you should definitely send flowers for your anniversary, her birthday, and Valentine’s Day. If she is a mother, and the child’s father is not active in the child’s life at all, it is nice to send her flowers on Mother’s Day.
If you still don’t know if it is appropriate to send her flowers, you might try making an anonymous post on a relationship forum or message board. You can explain the details, and hopefully someone will be able to tell you if it is appropriate to send her a flower bouquet.
Flowers are a great way to say “I care about you”, “I like you”, “I want to keep dating you”, and “I love you!” Sending flowers will make a girl’s day brighter.
For more relationship advice, please read “10 Relationship Red Flags and Bad Girlfriend Warning Signs.”
If you want to know what not to do in a relationship, please read “20 Signs You’re Dating Mr. Wrong.”