According to Showbiz Spy, “Sandra Bullock is desperate to keep her reconciliation with Jesse James private for her career”. Bullock and James have been keeping it all about the kids in public, but Sandra Bullock wants her family back, reports the website.She has forgiven James, although she has not forgotten what he has done.
James made a mockery of his marriage to Bullock when it was revealed he had been having affairs with other women starting just a few weeks into their marriage. Bullock’s Oscar speech conveyed how she idolized the man she married. She took none of the credit for her success and attributed it all to having James in her life. It was just days later that the flood gates opened and women came forth with graphic stories of their sexual affairs with James.
James and Bullock back together would explain why Jesse uprooted his kids and moved them to Texas. Although he is saying he wants the kids to be nearer to Sandra so they can continue their relationship, It is hard to believe Jesse would do this if something wasn’t in it for him. He is leaving behind his Monster Garage, which was his “baby” and made him famous.
It would make sense that there is something more to the move than keeping the kids near Bullock . Unfortunately, Bullock cannot return to her relationship with James in the public eye because it is bound to have negative effects on her career, especially after the Nazi affiliation that James has managed to put around himself with the pictures posted online and his father’s interviews.
Bullock and James were in the middle of adopting a baby at the time the scandal broke and Bullock acted quickly to assure the adoption would go through despite Jame’s lifestyle. Bullock got one of the quickest divorces available by filing in Austin Texas and went on to seek a single parent adoption.
Bullock and her new baby left Hollywood and spent their time between her new home in New Orleans and her home in Austin Texas. Immediately following the divorce, James put his home up for sale and headed off to buy a house in Austin to “have the kids be nearer Sandra”. James’ three children are very close to Bullock, especially the youngest, Sunny, who was basically raised by Bullock and James.
Jame’s move to Austin has left unanswered questions. Although it is said that it was done for the kids, many suspected that Jesse wanted to be near Sandra, who he continues to call the “love of his life”.
Bullock’s feelings for James run deep, she could not possibly shut off the feelings she talked about at the beginning of this year at the Oscars. That is not possible even through the hurt and shame he bestowed on her, she still cannot help how she feels. You can love someone and keep them out of your life because they are no good for you. Her public image could not be fixed any other way but by getting a divorce, especially after the “Nazi” infatuation of James’ became front page news.
Her career would most likely not have survived if she stayed in the marriage. Chances are neither would the adoption of her baby, Louie. The question remains, are Sandra Bullock and Jesse James secretly reconciled, or is Sandra Bullock sticking to her guns and ridding herself of a cheating husband?
Sandra Bullock certainly would not be the first woman to take back a cheating husband, if this is what she is doing. It is her life to decide, but unfortunately, when you are in the public eye, your are also under a microscope and she may just do damage to her career she can never turn around.
Reference: Showbiz Spy