Sandra Bullock and Jesse James are single, according to People Magazine. Their divorce became final on Monday. Sandra is one woman that knows what she wants, and goes after it without hesitation. We see this in the divorce, which became final in record time. Bullock found that the love of her life was not being true to her and went for the divorce. She did not wallow in couples counseling and second chances, she did what most woman should do in this situation, end the relationship.
Sandra has become the envy of many women who have found themselves in the same type of situation. She is strong and went about making things right for her and her new son. So many women that are victims of cheating husbands turn a blind eye, give second chances, or completely deny the infidelity all together. These are the women that will benefit from seeing Sandra Bullock go forward without hesitation and get this divorce. She is a role model for women, especially those who are selling themselves short by staying in a relationship with a cheating partner.
Bullock had asked Jesse periodically throughout the marriage if he was cheating. She had her suspicions which were put to rest by Jesse’s reassurance that he was not cheating on her. The only thing Sandra Bullock was guilty of in this marriage was trusting a man she truly loved. When her trust was betrayed, it was over for Sandra.
Jesse James cannot let go without giving it another try apparently because he is moving to Austin Texas to be near Sandra and her new son, Louis. Jesse wants his children to continue the close relationship they have with Sandra Bullock, so he is moving into the city that Sandra considers her home town. Even though she had recently purchased a home in New Orleans and does spend time there, her home in Austin is her main home.
Sandra Bullock has come back stronger than ever after the heart break and embarrassment Jesse James has caused her. She was able to joke about her personal life being the hot media topic at a recent awards show and she continues on with her work. Jesse, on the other hand, continues to say he loves Sandra and that he really made a mess of his life. He has always said that he can hope for a future with Sandra Bullock in it, each time he has been interviewed.
Baby Louis will be adopted by Bullock as a single parent. Jesse’s actions and behaviors he exhibited while the two were married put that adoption in jeopardy. Once Sandra made the decision to divorce and complete the adoption as a single parent, the behaviors of James were no longer an obstacle in the adoption process.
Stranger things have happened and maybe if James works hard at cleaning up his life style, some type of relationship may occur with Bullock and her new son. Will Sandra ever consider James as a partner again? Or will her consideration be just an investment in having a relationship for the kids so they will have the benefit of both her and Jesse as parenting figures? More than likely it would be the latter of the two. Sandra Bullock is one lady that will probably not give Jesse another chance to hurt her again.
References: People Magazine