I love to see women hate on other girls that are getting a free pass in the media because they lack talent and are coming into this thing sideways. Like, do you really think that the average dude is really sitting around thinking about girls that Kat Stacks, Karrine Stephens, Kim Kardashian or any other girl whose name begins with the letter K that is known for sleeping around? I mean honestly, the average man would just use such a woman if he had the opportunity to, no one is loosing sleep over such women and the few that do marry them do not stay involved in the relationship for long.
To be totally honest such short lived engagements are nothing to loose sleep over. Perhaps it is because these types of women stole someones man back in high school, or they found their man in a compromising position with a woman when their man tried to lie about what he was doing and said that he was going to come home from work late. I really do not understand the animosity. Sure there are a few suckers that do not recognize the game for what it is and are apologists for these women. But for every guy that honestly thinks that they are respectable and aspires to be with them you have twenty guys that can recognize it for what is and move on.
I never envied a woman that can make a career off of her sex and extend that fifteen minutes of fame into a real career. The girls that are still stuck on the pages of magazines and the women that continue to go back to the pages of those magazines because they lack the talent to move on are comical at best. Deep down every woman wants that attention that those girls are getting but few women actually want to get down and dirty and do what those women did to get that attention. A woman wants to be respectable, but part of her wants to know that she has the sex appeal to attract attention like those women do.
The media props these women up and uses them in their warfare against women in the battle of the sexes and they are seen as more than what they really are. The more a woman has to use these assets and the less talent they have the easier they are to forget. True talent will move on to something more creative and the real money is at the top where you no longer have to put yourself out there but can find someone else to exploit if you truly feel like. You can even find a creative way to do it in that women do not even feel as though they are being used, though clearly you are making some cash at their expense.
Is that not what these intellectual types do? They never got the attention from the men and secretly hate men, and they go around telling good women that just want companionship they need to do this and that to get a man and they don’t have a man themselves! Telling women to do this and that, denigrating and manipulating these women and making a mockery of themselves just to sell a magazine or promote a television talk show in the hands of their advertisers like silly putty. It is no wonder that women are so insecure as they are never thin enough, never have the right bodies never have the right clothes always feel that they are too uptight in the bedroom always feel as though they will die alone.
Relationships, as good as they can be, are not the end of the world. If you are not a complete person, have low-self esteem, are unsure about yourselves, and are looking for someone to complete you one probably should be alone in this world. I have to laugh at the audacity and unmitigated gall of some of these intellectual types “hating” on the women when they themselves are not that best representations or role models either. It has to be hard to be a woman; you are never expected to think for yourself and have to subscribe to any rhetoric that tugs at your emotions and are supposed to be desperate and willing to do whatever it takes to have a man. When you stand up for yourself people that are threatened by your resolve resort to calling you out of your name and making you feel bad about yourself for standing up for what you knew is right.
There are reasons why those other women do what they do. Typically those reasons are sad and at the end of the day those women are miserable. They are used to being at the bottom and are going to do whatever it takes to drag you down with them. At the same time they are still human beings and if someone is willing to take them on that is between her and that guy I don’t envy him, and I am not mad at her. For what purpose would that serve I know who I am, what I have, and what my place in life is. If I had wanted to go that route I had plenty of opportunities to do so.
Some men say that they do not like the drama. It isn’t always like that. But you have to ask yourself at the end of the day what you’re doing. Because chances are you aren’t any better than those men that are upfront with what they are doing; you may think that you are being the better person and showing them something new but you aren’t doing anything different at all. It is all the same, it just looks different on the surface. Someone that is worth being around isn’t going to get caught up in all of that so the men who are looking to play those games just let them do what they have to do. Everyone wants the same people, but most people are not for you anyway. I’m not sure why we continue to talk about these women that do not do anything and refuse to mention the women that are doing interesting things. It must be the American way …