So you think that your spouse may be cheating? Do you know what to look for? Plus you need to decide if you really want to know the truth or not. Because there could be something that you find out, that will end the world as you know it. Deciding before you begin to look for those signs is very important. Because even though you may think he or she is cheating, finding out for sure is completely different.
The reactions that you have can be something that is short of devastating. Because once you’ve found out that the person is cheating you will have a huge decision to make. Will you confront them and ask for a divorce? Or will you simply sit back and plot your revenge in other ways?
A spouse that is always gone at night may be something that points to a cheating person. Unless they have a job that is on that shift. You have to be reasonable when you are looking for signs of cheating. Because just because you aren’t having sex as often as you wished, it doesn’t mean they are cheating.
There are times in a person’s life that sex will just seem to be something they don’t want. You may go through it one day too. Lack of sex alone is not something that will mean your partner is definitely cheating.
But we are talking about times when the person should be home and instead they are gone. Staying out and making excuses as to what they are doing. Coming home and smelling like they have just taken a shower is another perfect sign.
Again though there may be a few times when this may actually be something that isn’t cheating. Like they are a member of a gym and have just gotten done working out. But has the gym and working out become a recent passion of theirs?
Getting into better shape could lead to a person wanting to taste of other fruit. As your mate looks better more people will recognize them, and compliment them. It’s happened to me before; I was working out and getting in better shape. The more people that complimented me, well the better I felt.
Not at first did I think about cheating, but it was when people who I found attractive would say things to me that thoughts would begin. Of course if your spouse really loves you they will not cheat no matter what they hear. It was obvious that I wasn’t in a lasting relationship to me at this point. But I should have thought a bit more; because it wasn’t something I would appreciate from a mate of mine.
However, those little compliments can lead to someone seeking out another. Especially if they are not hearing anything from you. No it doesn’t mean that it’s okay to cheat because you hear compliments from someone and not your spouse.
Marriage and even relationships should be more important to you. But again there is cheating in this world, and most likely always will be. Just try and be faithful as a person in a relationship and you will know you’ve done well.
