Girls do not come with instruction manuals. Many girls are complex individuals who express simple desires in complex ways. If you have made a special connection with a special girl and would like her to be your possible girlfriend, there are certain things that you should avoid doing. Those things are listed below;
Do not call her dog ugly- Whatever pet she might have do not insult it. Many girls are passionate about their pets and treat then as their little babies. Bonding with a girl’s pet will open her up to you. It’s a simple measure that shows her that she can trust you. Her pet might be hideous and if this is the case keep your lips and thoughts sealed.
Stay on the phone with her- Girls like to stay on the phone for lengthy periods and the conversation can be odd if your day was bland and you have nothing to talk about. If this is the case, just stay on the phone anyway and let her hear you breathe, she will be content.
Accept her gifts- When girls really like you they will start to spend money on you as though it were second nature to them. If you were raised humbly you might object to her attempts to spend money on you and that is a good thing to do when she first tries to spend money on you. However, is she insists then you should accept. Not accepting her gifts could make her feel as though you are rejecting her. If the gifts become too elaborate and you can not buy her gifts of equal quality then it might be time to refuse them.
Be Available- Girls want to know that you will be there for them if they need you or just want to hang out with you for a bit. If you are too busy this will signal to girls that you are not interested. You should set out a day or two of the week to spend with her or to talk to her.
Try new things- Nothing is worse than having a stiff dud for a boyfriend. Chances are that you and she will have completely different interests. Despite the differences in interests you should still act interested. If she wants you to come with her to a pottery class but you think it is too girly you will have to put your ego to the side and join her. If you can not join her on a simple outing she will make no reservations for you to be permanent being in her life.
Don’t make sexual advances towards her- Every girl is different but if they really like you they would prefer you to become a friend before becoming their boyfriend. You should never make sexual implications if she has not expressed any herself. She will appreciate your genuine kindness and patience. However, if she feels comfortable enough go give her hugs, let her rest her head on your shoulder, or put your arm around her shoulder.
Don’t call her stupid- She might do something that upsets you but you should be careful not to insult or belittle her. Remember that she is a potential girlfriend and not one of the guys.
If you really like this girl then you should be respectful towards her. Take a genuine interest in her and you two may soon be an item. Relationships take time to form and even longer to live out. Remember that if she shows no interest in you then back off, do not continue to pursue her.