Dating can be a scary term if you let it be. The dating world can be fun if you have a little information to help you get through all the scary parts. Dates can actually become pretty fun. I know, your sitting there wondering how it can be fun when there is so much to think about. Well, if you follow these great tips, you will not only enjoy your next date, you might even have a little fun with it.
Use your mind and your body
If you’re worried about the typical dinner and a movie deal then try something different. Going to dinner and a movie means you will have a few hours of talking time which can scare the crap out of you if you let it. So instead use your body. This doesn’t mean you should jump into bed with them. I am talking sports or something of that nature. If you like swimming, them maybe you can head to your local lake and go swimming. This means you will have some time to do something that you like and you won’t just have to sit around and talk with one another.
Date more people
This doesn’t mean that you have to get serious with all the people that you go out with. This just means don’t pick just one date and then wait forever until you decide to try again. Sign up for a dating service and pick several people to date. You could see one of Friday, one on Saturday and then maybe another on Sunday. By the time Sunday comes you will be less nervous. This is because you’re getting use to the flow of things and you get more comfortable dating. It doesn’t seem as scary the third time around. And you might find one that you would like to date again, which means it will be even easier for the second date.
Get more involved in the conversation
Sure we all have out normal questions that we ask while we are dating people. But when you run out of all the typical questions, where do you go from there? Instead of firing one normal question after the other, ask more about the same question. For example, if you ask him what he does for a living and he tells you what it is, ask more about it. Ask him if he likes his boss; ask if he likes his coworker. This will make the conversation last longer then normal and you will score some bonus points for asking additional questions and showing some interest in him.
Bad troubles stay at home
Don’t start off your date talking about your cheating ex-boyfriend or your loser brother. These things should be left at home and not in with your first date. This is a great way to ruin the date before it even begins. If he asks about your last relationship, just say something like he didn’t like to stay fateful and move onto a different subject. Don’t keep dwelling on it.
Watch the news before your date
While this might seem like funny advice its actually great advice. If you already keep up on the news then you should be fine. But if you don’t keep on the news, then you should brush up a little bit. This way you don’t look like a person who doesn’t care about their surroundings. You might have a lot of conversation pieces as well because chances are; he has also watched the news.