A serious relationship is a wonderful things but even more wonderful if you at least know what you gotta do to not only prepare but also to enjoy the relationship. There are some things every woman needs to do before she settles down and here is a list of 15 although that is not nearly enough.
1 Go on a blind date, it may be awful or it may be the best night of your life either way it is part of being single and enjoying every little thing before you settle down
2 Have a one night stand. Don’t you want to at least have some practice for when “the one” comes around?
3 Have sex with at least 2 people. I’m not saying you bareback it, safe is great! At least get a feel for something else so that when you finally do settle down you don’t wonder what else you could’ve had.
4 Remember I said have sex with at least 2 people? Have a friend with benefits. essentially a booty call but if its your friend then you can also enjoy a nice conversation.
5 Enjoy a quiet evening or anytime ALONE. Keyword being ALONE, not many nights like this after you find your special someone. Trust Me!
6 Buy a sex toy, some men are uncomfortable seeing these around because lets face it, not all men can live up to the toy’s standards but at least you know what to compare the real thing to. :) J/k just enjoy it.
7 Know your body…parts. This is SO important, if you’ve never explored you better hope he knows what to do because if not you’re not going to know what you’re missing and that would be a TERRIBLE thing.
8 Make sure you know what you want. I cannot stress enough how important it is to know what you want out of life. If you want something and your partner doesn’t then maybe that isn’t the right person. You should never lower your standards for ANYONE.
9 Make sure your partner understand you and all your needs. This is also something to consider because you may be spending a long time with this person, shouldn’t you feel like they know you like the back of their hand?
10 Make sure you find someone who respects you. A person who doesn’t respect you is bad news already. You should never lower yourself for ANYONE. By doing that you are already giving them the power.
11 Learn how to control all of your emotions. If you start to work on them when in the relationship make sure your partner understands your trying. By having all that stuff sorted out its a lot easier on both of you trust me.
12 know yourself. Be comfortable with yourself. Physically and emotionally. How can someone else love you if you don’t love yourself and also how can they know you if you don’t know yourself?
13 learn to become patient. This is a good one because patience will take you a long way. Not only in relationships but also in everyday life. Besides people who are high strung have a greater chance of having a heart attack.
14 Prepare for a serious relationship. Know that you may have to share some things and compromise. It’ll all be worth all your effort when things work out.
15 BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, don’t kid yourself, you know what you’re looking for. Don’t lower your expectation because you don’t think there is anyone like that out there. If you have patience, coincidentally #13, you will find what you are looking for.
With this list you are on your way to a great single life and even better love life. The most important thing on here though is to always be true to who you are. You have come a long way in life just to start lowering standards now.