There are a few things every man should do before getting involved in a serious relationship, here we will outline only the basics, hopefully by reading this you will be a little more prepared.
1 Have at least 2 sex partners, safe please.
2 one of the partners can be a sex buddy, this is a booty call and all parties agree.
3 Go out with the guys, have a drink or go out whatever you do enjoy life as a single guy.
4 Make sure that your family understands that when you do find that special someone they don’t have an opinion unless its something so important that you cannot bear to go without knowing.
5 Make sure you know what you want out of a relationship. what are the relationship goals?
6 Make sure you know what you want out of life, are kids in your future? More importantly, are they in hers?
7 Get to know your partner, you don’t want to get into something potentially serious without knowing exactly whats in store for you.
8 Make sure you enjoy spending time with your special someone. I can’t tell you how many times I have seen couples together who clearly don’t want to be together but are now “stuck” because they have kids.
9 Know the person you are with, you should know the person like the back of your hand. You should probably know when they are upset and when they’re lying.
10 Have your own place. It doesn’t matter if you are renting or buying, but also make sure this person isn’t just mooching off of you. That’s no fun, trust me.
11 Have a steady job. You don’t have to be pulling in the green but at least have something stable.
12 Be responsible, part of being responsible is also number 11. If you have a steady job then she knows you can take care of yourself. You don’t need her to be your mommy.
13 Understand the dynamics of a relationship. Communication is the the most important thing in any relationship. Lack of, can be the one thing that makes or breaks you two.
14 Decide what kind of a woman you want, there are some men who want a woman to do as they say and be the traditional housewife and there are plenty of women like that. There are also the women like me who are the complete opposite of that so at least know what you’re fishing for.
15 HAVE FUN! One of the fun aspects of not being in a relationship is the part about not being in a relationship. You have no one to answer to, no one calling you, asking where you are, who you’re with. There’s no rush to settle down, you’ll know when you’re ready. Until then live it up, safely of course.
These are the basic concepts every single man should take into consideration before entering a serious relationship. With these simple ideas you are already on the good path to a good relationship.