It’s tough to forgive a man for doing you wrong. It’s just as tough not to forgive. Below are ten reasons a woman should never forgive her man.
1)Flirting With the Waitress in Front of You
If he is flirting with the waitress in front of you, imagine what he is doing when you are not around. It is unnecessary to flirt with any other women when you are around. Being courteous to a waitress or bank teller is great. Acting as if you are available for a date is just plain wrong.
2)Hiding His Status
Whether it be on his online profile or what he or his friends tell you, if he is separated or divorced (or obviously married) and does not mention it, he will always hide things from you. If he can’t be honest from the start, don’t start a relationship with him.
3) Concealing His True Identity on a Dating Site
If he is bald, and he says he’s not on his online dating profile, when he finally makes plans for the date, and she sees him, unless he is so fantastically, beyond gorgeous, she will not want to see him again. He lied. Plain and simple. And lies will continue. That’s not exactly a great way to start a relationship.
4) Taking a Vacation with another Woman
Seems unlikely, right? A friend of mine told me years ago that her boyfriend at the time was going on vacation and didn’t ask her to come because he knew she could not go, (she could not get the time off from work,) He did, however, ask if she minded that he went. She of course said it was fine, but before the trip, he let her know that since she was unavailable, he was going to go with his ex-girlfriend that he was still friends with. She broke it off with him immediately for obvious reasons.
5) Ditching All Your Family Functions
If he does not want to be with your family, then he really doesn’t want to be with you. Your family is a part of your life.
6) Suggesting What Lingerie You SHOULD Wear
Suggesting a thong or bringing a whip and high heels in the bedroom is not exactly romantic, but not off limits in the suggestion box. However, if your woman buys her own lingerie that she likes to wear for you, don’t suggest she get something else. Hurting her feelings will not get you where you want to “be” that night or any other night for that matter.
7) Constantly Borrowing Money
Times are tough, however, if you man is borrowing money all the time – you are paying for dinners, gas for his car, wine for the party etc…, then he may be using you. There is nothing wrong with going Dutch or the woman, if she is financially stable, paying for a lot of things, but if he is never paying and asking your for money all the time, get out as soon as you can.
8)Having Sex with You When You Have Said No
Just because you are married or have been a couple for some years, does not mean that “no” means “yes.” It is not okay for him to be cute while he forces himself on you. If he doesn’t like it, tough. If he loves you, he’ll get over it and move on.
9)Lying About Cheating
Cheating and lying are awful and are reasons not to forgive, however, if you clearly know that your man is cheating, and he knows you know, but he is still lying about it, there is no way to reconcile. Depending on your relationship, cheating can be forgiven and worked out if both partners are willing to move on. But to continually lie about it means there is no more trust.
10)If He Hits, Berates, Pushes, Touches You in A Violent Way or Physically Abuses You
Self explanatory. If he does not want to get help, get away from him and get yourself help.